Then my inner kinky self flogger says βyeah, but it feels so good to feel all amped up and pissed, it feels so good to keep thinking about all the things that my partner did wrong, it feels so good to reinforce that nobody cares about me, it feels so good to brood in my little cloud of dustβ¦
Do your eyes smile like flowers?
Water.
What if I could become still water to be able to reflect the beauty of the moon?
What if I could use the concept of WuWei, the inner flow state?
The concept of allowance, the concept of Bruce Lee βBe water my friend.β (Said with the accent and all.)
The concept of Judo; use the energetic momentum of your adversary to transform it instead of resisting. When we resist, we fatigue, when we let move through and dance with, we are no longer attacked, it becomes a dance.